Greenwitch

Yesterday we left the kids for the day and drove up to London, I know there are many people that would really freak out at that statement but they phoned us the min. they got in the door from school and then we where home by six.

Its the first time they have ever had to cook their own dinner, again I can see a few eyebrows raising but i would never have done it had I not been certain and they where fine and they loved it and they missed us, all round a good experience for all and I don't think I was wrong taking a day to myself for the first time in their lives

BUT saying this makes me think about baby wearing like I did with David and my lifestyle and the beliefs I hold dear, seeing my best friend today from high school, I realised how time and space cannot effect that bond and I love her totally for who she is and look up to her

BUT how did I create such very different rules for myself and my family, where did it all start and come from ?

Oh and its really hard not to say what you think, especially to someone you care about and feel you can be honest with

But there where many things I swallowed, knowing that she is the best for her babies and family and I am the best for mine.