Greenwitch

Hi Angela,
I am reading a book called Messages from the Masters by Dr Brian Weiss and here is a passage for you from the book.
Letting Go of Fear and Opening Your Mind.
You have a relationship with yourself as well as with others. and you have lived in many bodies and in many times. So ask your present self why is it so fearful. Why are you afraid to take reasonable risks? Are you afraid of your reputation, afraid of what others think? These fears are conditioned from childhood or before.
Ask yourself these questions: What's to lose? What is the worst that can happen? Am I content to live the rest of my life this way? Against a background of death, is this so risky?

The walls that we put around ourselves whenever we feel emotionally threatened are walls of fear. We fear being hurt, rejected, ostracized. We are threatened by our vulnerability, and we wall ourselves off so that we do not feel. Our emotions are suppressed.
Sometimes we even reject the person or people who threaten us before they can reject us. We beat them to the punch. This form of self-protection is know as a counterphobic defence. Unfortunately, our walls hurt us more than any other person could. Our walls block us off, when we are separated from our emotions and feelings, we can never reach the source of our suffering, the underlying fears and vulnerabilities. We cannot understand the real roots of our problems. We cannot heal; we cannot be whole.
Experience transcends belief. Teach them to experience. Remove their fear. Teach them to love and to help one another.
Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Let your walls tumble down. Examine without any judgment, criticism or guilt what underlies the wall. What is the fear? From what are you protecting yourself?What can you do to heal this fear? How can your become whole again:
Once you truly understand your fear and its sources, the fear will dissolve. Your heart will once again open. You will feel joy.

And further on it says:-
Your must eradicate the fears from their minds. It is a waste of energy when fear is present. It stifles them from fulfilling what they were sent here to fulfil..... It's only on the surface..... that the trouble lie. Deep within their soul, where the ideas are created that is where you must reach them.
Hope this helps you.
Love
Mommy

I am married to my soul mate and my kids are a very strong soul connection, I never want to be separated from them and I am afraid that death is a separation. That is my only fear, death which equals separation. Even reincarnation does not comfort as with it comes the veil of amnesia. All other fear i have let go of. My lesson now is letting people learn their own lesson, even if it means hurting the people around them, understanding is not wisdom and wisdom is definitely not patience and compassion. I believe in my heart in a world where people should beheld accountable for their actions, if someone kills, kill the murderer and if they rape, castration. I set such high standards for myself and I find people soooo sooooo disappointing.